@newt the criticism against them was twofold

sfr harbored opened pedos and was in a polycule with pedo defenders (one was also an admin on snowdin) and later with who turned out to be a closeted pedo on another instance who admitted to being such

when I tried to address these things with them initially, sfr decided to cut all ties and ban Disqordia but then kept getting criticism from Mastodon instances for being "Disqordia adjacent"

So now instead of really handling any of it she's just leaving