You are advocating for a safe space where the things you say into a public channel are never shared outside of that channel. The fact that this is what your idea of 'safe space' means speaks volumes about the kind of life you get to live.
*You* need to do better. Not us. *You* need to realise that in November 2022 you entered a space that had been existing for six years as safer place for the systemically oppressed, and we're not going to let you take that away without fighting for it.