Maybe it's useful to try to turn this into something that looks like a request:
- I think we need shared blocklists ASAP. I know people are working on them, and I'm grateful. If you want to fight in my mentions about whether they should exist, you're going in the sardine can.
- I think the people behaving like this need to be told by other [white dudes in open source or whatever] that their behavior is ridiculous and self-defeating.