Being able to crack jokes and lightheartedly teasing a girl goes a long way too :shyduck: it can help 'em get more comfortable with you too.

As far as finding a nice lady offline, I am not sure (my experiences with people offline in general are shitty) but the nice girl you find offline might not be racist, and that's okay, because there's a really good chance that as a man, you can guide a nice girl into hating the faggots and niggers slowly :nicechan_anti_groomer: