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now, let’s think about it for a moment – secure people don’t run about telling everyone how “secure” they are. They are not wondering if they can cope. A certain type of insecure human personality will often come on a bit too strong, in an effort to compensate for the feeling that they cannot cope effectively with the situation. Dogs who are not good communicators use gestures that are “too big.” Instead of just walking up with an arced approach and sniffing, they will rush up and fling themselves on the ground, writhing and squirming at the other dog’s feet. My dogs greet such an animal with the attitude: “You can just say hello, you don’t have to overdo it!”
I fully recommend that you take this advice and apply it to the fact that you think you’re always correct, because if that was the case, you wouldn’t feel the need to say it, your personality would command it. Instead your personality currently commands being argumentative consistently and you wonder why all you see is edrama and arguments.