at some point you gotta pick. why did you come to fedi? what do you want out of it? because most of us early adopters came here because we hate the platforms that you recently arrived from, for one reason or another.
what do you *want* out of this platform? do you ant the small moderated communities? 'cause if so you have to understand that Facebook and Twitter are literally the antithesis of that. they don't moderate, both out of principle and out of scale.