The reason trans people are so specifically targeted for hate is not because of anything we've done. Thus we cannot stop this by changing our behaviour. The reason we're targeted is because ultraconservatives and cryptofash need an enemy, and we're one of a couple of easy one for them to target if they don't want to actually encounter significant opposition from liberals and the left, who will just sit there and allow it, defend their right to target us, or even join in.