@Rocc @shibao @hj my theory here is that i want my default living state to be "calm and quiet" - and i can just choose to go chill in a city or with friends whenever i want to break out of that.

i need a nice quiet place to relax and call home free from other people or external stressors and variables - some people take vacations for this, but i prefer home to be my home, not some vacation destination far away