@Punished_Potatus @fatepony I did too, but I was one of the rare ones. Most of my ctcs went for a guy about 2-3 years older, that seems to be the sweet spot. He gets enough experience to lead that way, gets an upward career trajectory.
The majority of guys in their 20’s talk a big game about being married but they don’t REALLY wanna live the life. They want a live-in gf to come share the bachelor life with them. It’s the majority even now as we all get to 30.
Even if they have kids they STILL act like they’re 17 and their wife is crazy to expect him to spend his weekends parenting, doing chores, or going to family functions instead of playing video games in the basement for 36 hours.
Nobody talks about it but it’s pretty much the top issue causing marital corrosion from what I can see