hearing many reports of xmpp + omemo behaving poorly for people and its tragic because
- it's working great and reliably for me and my partner these days
- seems like it must be just a small configuration issue or miscommunication but i don't know exactly what it is so i can't help
- even with those issues it's great and easy and useful in so many other ways
- it helped me escape from using the excruciatingly shitty google chat