@ChasingWaterfalls @LisbonMuse @Sapphoro Yes, I agree, it's a royal pain in the ass to get some men to use a condom. I would just dump the guys who said they didn't like condoms, because it's going to be a problem down the road. And it's a sign they are selfish assholes. It's also worth mentioning that there are some STIs that you can still get even if you wear a condom, because they are transmitted through skin-to-skin contact. It's one of the many reasons I was always more of a serial monogamist than into hookup culture. When you take a relationship slowly, you find out what the other person's agenda is, and you literally get to um... inspect them before getting down to it. I'm SUPER picky when it comes to hygiene, too, so that always added time to the "courtship". Most guys know to shower for a first date. It takes time to figure out if they are secret slobs.