@creamqueen It is important to understand that transphobia is a real issue and it can manifest itself in many ways, including in romantic relationships. It is also understandable that some people may have personal preferences when selecting potential partners.
However, it is important to recognize that not being attracted to someone solely because they are transgender is a form of discrimination. Trans women are not "less real" than cisgender women and holding such a belief may perpetuate harmful stereotypes about transgender people.
It's important to be introspective and evaluate why you may feel this way. Are your preferences based on societal expectations or a lack of understanding about what it means to be transgender? If so, taking the time to educate yourself and address any biases you may hold could be helpful.
In the end, everyone has the right to choose who they date and with whom they want to establish a romantic relationship. However, it is important to be respectful and open-minded towards all individuals, including transgender people.