"Nature has tremendous variety. There's no saying what is normal; what you come across all the time is what you define as normal. We should reframe our thinking on these things. It is from the viewpoint of the majority, the mainstream that your [disabled] child is a problem; it is the failure to meet this standard that troubles the heart."
- Buddhist monk Beopryun https://youtu.be/SZ0ISZKDNZc?t=753 (Korean-language video; Korean subtitles and KSL interpretation provided)