Hey friends! I've been writing some articles on kinky experiences/ opinions/ education and I think this one is worth a good read on identifying potential red flags in rope. If you identify as a bottom (new OR experienced) go give it a look ♡ Note that this article is my own personal perspective. There are many nuances to these and each situation is unique. I would encourage you to find your own red flags and vetting processes for tops and I hope this article sparks some thoughts on the matter!
https://kinkhouseofo.com/index.php/2022/12/17/7-red-flags-to-look-for-in-tops/