@meso If you just want to link abestos.cafe, you can add a link to your sidebar like this for the easy path:
https://fe.soapbox.pub/login/external?server=asbestos.cafe
If you really want to self-host it, you can either:
- Do a custom build of Soapbox so it points to your server. Then just copy the build wherever you want. https://docs.soapbox.pub/frontend/development/build-config/#backend_url
- Set up an Nginx file that routes /api, /oauth, and others to the backend. It would look similar to this: https://gitlab.com/soapbox-pub/soapbox/-/blob/develop/installation/mastodon.conf