a lot of the people i know are brutally individualist and optimising for either fun, productivity or both...a nd like...y'all it doesn't have to be this way!!!!!
you ARE allowed to exit the atomised life of work hard/party hard and find the supreme beauty of the moment, the gentle spark of human interconnection, the sublime pleasure of Real Human Existence
not trying to take away fun from anyone but........ "i don't want to be bored and/or boring" is a fucking demon that eats away at the base of your humanity. go sit in a beautiful place and return to your breath until you Get It.
from your perspective fun and productivity seem like polar opposites but from my perspective they are both just ways to escape from the present moment