Sorry I went to bed. Defederation of nicecrew.digital is complete. I was hoping to make it mutual but they want to exploit.
I slept on it as requested. My heart still tells me leaving is the right choice. My instance will stay up as its being used as a learning tool but I won't be around... For however long it takes.
For the record I didn't want bear hurt. He is a good man.
I foolishly thought Nef and I were close enough that he would listen to me. I was wrong. I never hated him. I don't try to get through to ppl I hate. I can't take anymore hits or dog piles while trying to help him. I'm tapping out. If God wants to speak to him, it won't be through me. I'm done.
It was a pleasure.