You're of course welcome to stay, Denny. But I don't know why you would want to when you so clearly hate it here now. Like I said in DMs, I'm happy to help you or anyone else who wants to make their own instance with as much technical advice as I can provide, even though I'm no expert. That's the nice thing about the fediverse, if you decide somewhere isn't for you anymore, you can make your own and not have to worry about someone else's rules or moderation style.