Possibly even more unpopular (or maybe not, I'm sure I'll find out, but then again I'm neither black nor a woman, so maybe I won't):
"Small dick energy" is a form of body shaming we should not engage in.
"An inherit part of who you are, that you have no influence over, is so bad that we use it as an insult against horrible people" is not making the world a better place. We understand that when it comes to slurs about ethnicity and sexual predispositions, we should understand it with anatomy.