@straw tl;dr it’s based on stereotypes.
A guy wears a dress and says he’s a woman. But what about a woman who HATES dresses? If the dress makes the woman, then is she not really a woman?
Fine, so call it a “feeling” instead, and get rid of the stereotypes. Okay, so what does it FEEL like to be a woman? You’ll only get nonsense answers at this point.