I couldn't do it... I was with my brother for 4 days and I couldn't get over the fear that he would react negatively even though he has been super supportive throughout my life.
I wanted to. There was so much internal want to just say "hey this is who I am. I want to know that you'll love me for me" but fear and the instinct to "hide" and avoid attention was stronger.
I'm disappointed that I didn't say anything but I know they are all just a phone call away.... I need to do it because I find a lot of joy in being able to be me and not feel like there is a "secret" that will be found out