@jeff fwiw though I'm convinced retirement homes exist to kill off old people within 5-10 years of their check-in.
I have literal proof. Both my grandfather and grandma checked into a retirement home at the same time.
My grandfather died around 8 years in. My grandmother left the retirement home and moved back in with us.
> We're still dealing with the stupidity of having sent her there in the first place. They over medicate old people just to keep them docile.
> We've removed almost every single medication they added. She's still here at 96. The meds they give old people make their eyes glaze over.