@scathach @shibao ask yourself if you're going to be able to leave things as they are. it's not about being a predator or not but about not exposing yourself to a desire that you can never fulfill. you may need to cut contact for a while if it gets bad.

I know it sucks. I don't think women (if it is a woman) have any idea what they do to men (pretty sure you said you're a man) just by existing. good luck.