@skinnylatte yea, and textually in the game you experience those moments as that character's own memory of them, and it's… a lot
those Big Emotions come her struggles with a dual identity and wanting to individuate herself from her parents as all do, and their own HKer trauma (and general *gestures* absorbed from the culture like fish in water)
it's a lot, in an amazing (and also heart-rending) way