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I get that being lectured is annoying, especially when it's obviously happening for gender-biased reasons. But a lot of people don't get that many autistics are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Either we get written off as "too quiet" and insufficiently chatty, or if we loosen up and communicate in the way that comes naturally to us, people accuse us of lecturing, or if we're men, "mansplaining".