Y’all gotta understand that there are folks who meet you and hate you for whatever reason makes sense to them, and then they’ll actively go out of their way to not give you any semblance of courtesy when you make a mistake because they want to lambast you and make you out to be the person they already told themselves you are in order to hate you.
And all of that just isn’t about you sometime. It’s their fuckin bullshit that they will fight to the end of their days, in denial of their fuckery.