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<blockquote style="position: relative; padding-left: 55px;"><section><a href="https://thingy.social/users/malcircuit/statuses/115980578100480022">Mallory's Musings &amp; Mischief (malcircuit@thingy.social)'s status on Friday, 30-Jan-2026 08:01:45 JST</a><a href="https://thingy.social/@malcircuit" title="malcircuit@thingy.social"><img src="https://gnusocial.jp/avatar/99969-48-20230219083022.webp" width="48" height="48" alt="Mallory's Musings &amp; Mischief" style="position: absolute; left: 0; top: 0;">Mallory's Musings &amp; Mischief</a></section><article><p>A good analogy to transition is when a caterpillar becomes a butterfly... and I don't mean that in the sense of a strange, kinda gross thing turning into a beautiful, delicate creature.</p><p>What I mean is that inside of the cocoon, the caterpillar literally dissolves, turns into a kind of soup of caterpillar bits, and that soup reconfigures itself into a butterfly... somehow. </p><p>Taking apart your gender is easy. Putting yourself back together is the challenge. </p><p><a href="https://blackqueer.life/@FinalGirl">@FinalGirl</a> <a href="https://blackqueer.life/@FinalGirl/115980340257875191" rel="nofollow">https://blackqueer.life/@FinalGirl/115980340257875191</a></p></article><footer><a rel="bookmark" href="https://gnusocial.jp/conversation/6106192#notice-12025625">In conversation</a><time datetime="2026-01-30T08:01:45+09:00" title="Friday, 30-Jan-2026 08:01:45 JST">about 4 months ago</time> <span>from <span><a href="https://thingy.social/@malcircuit/115980578100480022" rel="external" title="Sent from thingy.social via ActivityPub">thingy.social</a></span></span><a href="https://thingy.social/@malcircuit/115980578100480022">permalink</a><h4>Attachments</h4><ol><li><article><header><div>No result found on File_thumbnail lookup.</div><h5><a href="https://blackqueer.life/@FinalGirl/115980340257875191">Tyla (Combat Waifu Yuri Arc) (@FinalGirl@blackqueer.life)</a></h5><div> from <span>Tyla (Combat Waifu Yuri Arc)</span></div></header><div>If I could give one piece of advice to trans folks starting out that would sink in, it’s this:Transitioning your gender is the easy part.What you should realize is that it’s not just your gender that is wrong. You built your ENTIRE life on that wrongness. Literally everything in your life was centered around that wrongness.We all see transition as this big deal. But that’s fucking rounding error. Fucking buy some new clothes, done. Take a pill, done. It’s fucking nothing.The hard part is fixing EVERYTHING ELSE IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.</div><footer></footer></article></li></ol></footer></blockquote>

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Mallory's Musings & Mischief (malcircuit@thingy.social)'s status on Friday, 30-Jan-2026 08:01:45 JST Mallory's Musings & Mischief
A good analogy to transition is when a caterpillar becomes a butterfly... and I don't mean that in the sense of a strange, kinda gross thing turning into a beautiful, delicate creature.
What I mean is that inside of the cocoon, the caterpillar literally dissolves, turns into a kind of soup of caterpillar bits, and that soup reconfigures itself into a butterfly... somehow.
Taking apart your gender is easy. Putting yourself back together is the challenge.
@FinalGirl https://blackqueer.life/@FinalGirl/115980340257875191
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  If I could give one piece of advice to trans folks starting out that would sink in, it’s this: Transitioning your gender is the easy part. What you should realize is that it’s not just your gender that is wrong. You built your ENTIRE life on that wrongness. Literally everything in your life was centered around that wrongness. We all see transition as this big deal. But that’s fucking rounding error. Fucking buy some new clothes, done. Take a pill, done. It’s fucking nothing. The hard part is fixing EVERYTHING ELSE IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.

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