After 7.5 years in San Francisco, I feel like my body is going through a period of extreme rejection of this type of urban life. There’s something about San Francisco that just doesn’t work for me, never has, the way New York City always made sense to me the first time I visited both cities. I have ups and downs with it, but I think I need to stop making it try to work for me, when it simply does not, and that’s okay.