You should take a look at some of the actual stuff people are talking about.
Here's a good thread:
https://twitter.com/tomcoates/status/1595848852942114816
I don't think we're talking about matters of taste. This is egregious intentional harassment , designed to terrorize, that's outside the bounds for everyone and illegal in many countries.
If you don't want to use a shared blocklist, don't. Your choice. Let's make it easier for people who don't want to be brigaded by trolls to have a fighting chance.