@Witch_Hunter_Siegfried @monsterislandcolonizer You need to learn to let go. I sincerely hope you are an autist capable of self awareness and I'm not wasting my time, but there's going to come a point where you either accept that hobbies which include other people will necessarily include silly opinions from other people, or you'll have to learn to enjoy things by yourself.
This year I've really focused on improving my art skills. That means I'm regularly interacting with artfags who I share zero in common with other than art, and I'm fine with that. It's helped me, actually. I'm going to go out on a limb and say that's exactly the antidote you need to get over this, because the alternative is to never enjoy the one finite life you have here, and what a waste that would be.