Heh. You are kinder than I. If someone goes out of their way to be insulting to me in a DM? Damn right that bad behaviour is getting called out in public. I'm not letting someone get away with what is abusive behaviour just because they were too cowardly to make their insult public.
If someone's doing that, I owe it to Fedi to let people know that there is someone who thinks it's okay to be abusive as long as they don't get seen doing it.
No missing stairs.