@neil nah i'm fine. but i have learned some facts recently that while unsurprising in retrospect, are still unfortunate.
the facts that i've learned would make most people feel like spiders are crawling over their grave. i'm made of much tougher stuff but even i have been at my wit's end.
i've not yet decided whether to stop being vague, and to directly state the facts i'm aware of; the latter, at least in the public sphere, will probably not profit anyone.
however, i am seeking legal advice.