> They want women to be fat, ugly and mean corporate wage slaves.

This is a trad con falsehood you're spreading. Feminists complain about the glass ceiling so that women can boss around slaves of their own, even though women avoid career risk-taking.

> I can see the point of being a feminist in the past

Maybe you also see the point of Nazism in the past as well? I'm not meaning to be rude yet, I'm just complaining that people like you give a pussy-pass to a hate movement.

> it was perfectly normal for families to sell daughters into slavery or prostitution

This is a feminist falsehood.

> I hate men

This seems to be the only thing men generally agree on (normies just hide it better). Misanthropes always hate men more than they hate women.

> feminism was probably a political psyop

Feminism is a grassroots hate movement, because women naturally prefer the company of other women and men soon learn to avoid other men. Thus it is easy for women to organize to push for their own gender interests.

> legitimate problem

This is a typical "Pendulum swung too far" fallacy common in anti-feminist circles.

> Women should have the option to be self-sufficient

You can be self-sufficient if you live by yourself in the woods. No one restricted women from taking that option. Women argued that men have to take up burdens so women can get by doing less. This is not a position a self-sufficient person takes in a dialogue and no one would tolerate from a man. People point at the door when a man demands easier work than was agreed on.

> [Self-sufficiency] is not the primary option

That's why no one who tells you to go live in the woods ever takes that option. Being a second, and even a third class citizen is better than being all by yourself.