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   d (deprecated_ii@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 11-Dec-2022 00:22:00 JST d
   the concept that women are fucked up but men have to contort themselves to attract them anyway because men are the ones with more agency is fundamentally flawed, because the reward on offer is not actually a quality woman. it's a fucked up woman
   
   so, the men who are going to play the dancing clown to attract women are the ones who are fine with that reward, because they don't want to keep her around, they just want to fuck her a few times and move on to the next. it's completely predictable with a few moments' thought
   
   the problem at its core *is* a lack of quality women, and individual men have no power at all to change that
   
   and contrary to popular wisdom it was not men who kept women more or less in line historically, but other women. the social structures women built to police themselves were not imposed by men to begin with, and won't be imposed by men again. it's not that men *can't* police women, but that arrangement is an entirely different one
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     d (deprecated_ii@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 11-Dec-2022 00:22:11 JST d

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     there are strong parallels between this problem and the hiring problem businesses are seeing
     
     there's simply a serious mismatch between what one side is offering and what the other party actually wants, on both sides really
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