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   iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Sunday, 14-Jun-2026 06:33:56 JST iced depresso
   i'm not sure if the "i got mine" people are just world hypothesizing, or just deaf. i deal with a lot of that "well it worked for me so it must be fine" trope.
   
   you show them logs that it doesn't work and its not fine and they glitch out like what.
   
   there's something about social dynamics especially where people are just utterly oblivious.
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Sunday, 14-Jun-2026 07:04:51 JST iced depresso

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     @kuteboicoder i'm literally just trying to talk to people and they're all just playing freezeout and other copes, then trying to gaslight me that they didn't do it.
     
     :comfyshrug: i literally took social skills training and it outright said no that's not doing anything wrong that's literally them freezing you out
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     kuteboicoder@subs4social.xyz's status on Sunday, 14-Jun-2026 07:04:52 JST kuteboicoder

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     i feel a lot less guilty about my own "i got mine" inclinations when i reflect on how i am structurally forbidden from helping out
     
     example: i inherited a 2-bedroom mobile home. and the mobile home park policies forbid me from taking in an unrelated roommate
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     kuteboicoder@subs4social.xyz's status on Sunday, 14-Jun-2026 07:04:52 JST kuteboicoder

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     did i "work harder" than some other loser chud who never inherited a mobile home? hell no.
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     kuteboicoder@subs4social.xyz's status on Sunday, 14-Jun-2026 07:04:52 JST kuteboicoder

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     i'm not the only one of course.
     
     sometimes i reflect on how society is filled with "it is what it is, nothin i can do about it" NPCs, not just at the bottom but all the way up to the top.
     
     people all the way up to the highest levels of government (in every country), the ivy league graduates, the venture capitalist "job creators", the political party bosses, the media executives and their immediate assistants and staff
     
     all going to bed each night telling themselves "i can't fix society's problems, it's not my job"
     
     and i just seethe
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     🌈ᚩ🌈 (bonifartius@noauthority.social)'s status on Sunday, 14-Jun-2026 07:23:51 JST 🌈ᚩ🌈

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     @icedquinn @KuteboiCoder the world consists of guardrails for normies to not fuck up, and those guardrails make it hell for everyone not normie.

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     kuteboicoder@subs4social.xyz's status on Sunday, 14-Jun-2026 07:23:51 JST kuteboicoder

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     @bonifartius@noauthority.social @icedquinn@blob.cat
     
     i think "normie" misdiagnoses the problem here
     
     plenty of retarded misanthropes are able to make it in life if they are insulated with generational wealth. there's no mistake you're likely to make that would dispossess you of that... "normie privilege" for lack of a better term
     
     whereas plenty of actual normies of middle-class heritage lose everything and end up with nothing in life, despite having done nothing wrong
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Sunday, 14-Jun-2026 07:23:51 JST iced depresso

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     @kuteboicoder @bonifartius i feel like this is that thing where i talk about something specific and personal and everyone goes off on some other shit, so i'm giving up on this thread. :gutkato_brulas_senzorge:
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Sunday, 14-Jun-2026 07:23:52 JST iced depresso

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     @kuteboicoder for me the problem is i read clinical papers and books as just a thing that i do. :cat_sad: influence books, behavioral and cognitive psych, control grid shit, so i know immediately when a lot of these people are absolute dumbfucks.
     
     a common theme with most of it is that normal people are absolutey stupid as shit and wrong about literally everything all the time.