RE: https://dair-community.social/@emilymbender/116415758263803823
And it's happened again -- someone replied to one of my posts about mansplaining with a "well, actually ..." joke about mansplaining. You get blocked for this folks, because it is is boundary crossing behavior.
When someone writes about something that is painful or even just unpleasant, responding with: "How but a little more of that, but as a joke?" is not funny, respectful, or appropriate.