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   Adrianna Tan (skinnylatte@hachyderm.io)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Apr-2026 21:24:48 JST Adrianna Tan

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   @aesthr ha, and as an Asian femme appearing person I get a lot of ‘you remind me of this exotic woman I was in love with’

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     Æ. (aesthr@wandering.shop)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Apr-2026 21:24:52 JST Æ.

     As a woman on the Fediverse you can't even post a picture of an inanimate object, e.g. a bicycle, that does not contain yourself at all, without having men going out of their way to comment on your appearance.

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     Æ. (aesthr@wandering.shop)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Apr-2026 21:42:58 JST Æ.

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     Every single time I try posting a little more on here again, stuff like this happens and I remember why I spend my time elsewhere (namely bluesky). I really with it wasn't like this but it is.

     Sure, I can mute, block, and report but there's always more. It never ends.

     The Fediverse has a massive toxic-masculinity problem and I don't see that changing anytime soon.