So I think I'm going back to Hugo. I've invested time on my workflow with it which should solve my issues.
On my laptops I use VSCode where I have 3 tasks, a "Create Draft" task and tasks to publish the draft now or later. The tasks and a "promote" script handle it all beautifully.
Now I just need figure this out for my iPad where I think a combination of IA Writer templates and GitHub Actions will handle everything I need.
If this works I think I'll be permanently done with WordPress.