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   Artemis (artemis@dice.camp)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Nov-2025 23:37:43 JST Artemis

   I carry deep rage every day towards people who did not want to do the hard work of parenting but had kids out of feelings of obligation or for self-fulfillment purposes.

   If you choose to bring a human being into the world, you are choosing the responsibility to do your best to set them up for a happy, healthy life. If you don't want to both physically & emotionally support & nourish a human being (who does not have the capacity to do the same for you), then why the fuck would you have a child?

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     Hobbyist Humanoid :v_bi: (farah@beige.party)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Nov-2025 23:37:58 JST Hobbyist Humanoid :v_bi:

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     @artemis I can’t imagine being a parent like my parents were to me. I had my kid pretty late in life because I knew I had issues and have to work on it before projecting all of it on my offspring

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     Artemis (artemis@dice.camp)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Nov-2025 23:37:59 JST Artemis

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     I think a lot of shitty parents just comfort themselves with the thought that everyone has shitty parents.

     The only problem is that it's not fucking true.

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     Artemis (artemis@dice.camp)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Nov-2025 23:38:00 JST Artemis

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     Being a parent is the biggest fucking responsibility you could take on in your life. I have nothing but deep respect & admiration for parents who work hard at loving & caring for their kids.

     But so many people seem to think their children are accessories or mere extensions of themselves.

     Oh, you only had a kid because felt like you were "supposed to" have a kid? Do you just do everything other people expect of you? Have a spine & do your own thing.

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