My husband is completely deaf, has been since birth, we communicate via BSL but when I'm angry with him, I wait until he turns his back and then I shout and scream until I'm feeling better, when he turns round I'm smiling and able to sign again.
@fesshole NGL, releasing the tension is the key to harmony afterward, but the skill is in always doing it in a way that doesn’t freak out the other person (who may or may not be the cause of the tension)
Even just taking it out on inanimate objects isn’t enough if it causes bangs & crashes
But bottling it up isn’t a solution — much as it is the British way