@minego I grok. We used to have house keepers come once a week at a place I lived (housemate was a slob, bless his heart), when I first moved in. (Eventually it was realized that I did everything they did because I keep my space and common areas nice and tidy.
But, I'd grab my laptop and head to the cafe because I didn't want them underfoot, and I didn't want to be under foot and my anxiety would kick in watching them do things *not the way I would do them*.
That shit will make me crazy...er.