@cwebber The last three paragraphs of this article are very important.
As I write this, I am in a hotel bed, in the middle of the country, on day two of a 1200 mile move from a "do not travel" state to a "blue state" (on Erin's map).
Existing (openly) as anything other than cis-gender in so much of America is too big of a threat to personal safety.
I just hope that the safety that "blue" states provide doesn't collapse on us.