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   Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:30 JST Mr. Bacon
   THE SUN IS RIGHT IN MY FACE.
   
   GO AWAY SUN
   
   But the weather, omg, im so happy summer is here.
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:16 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @jae @sun_eater Yah, I had great parents, but my mom never learned how to let go and I'm still the same person I was when I was 18 in her eyes.
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     wuhan.bat™ (jae@darkdork.dev)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:17 JST wuhan.bat™

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     @sun_eater @Tony i'm old enough to be both of your guy's father and i've never heard of helicopter parent. but it makes sense if they "hover" over you. i was fortunate to have parents that encouraged my hackety hack shit and going turbo-sperg.
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     rei (sun_eater@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:18 JST rei

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     @Tony @jae i am an early gen-Z i think, born in 2002
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     rei (sun_eater@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:19 JST rei

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     @Tony @jae never heard that expression before no, my generation calls that zero aura parents or smth
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:19 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @sun_eater @jae what? What generation are you?
     
     I'm a millenial (almost a zoomer by like one year) but was raised by boomers.
     
     That's why everyone things I'm like 45.
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:20 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @sun_eater @jae You've never heard of a helicopter parent? It means a parent who hovers and never leaves you alone.
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     rei (sun_eater@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:21 JST rei

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     @Tony @jae i never heard that in my life
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     rei (sun_eater@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:22 JST rei

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     @Tony @jae i don't get it
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:22 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @sun_eater @jae "helicopter parent"
     
     It was a helicopter parent joke
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:23 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @sun_eater @jae My mom is an amazing women. But also my mom:
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:24 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @sun_eater @jae no, my mom doesn’t like my job. Every time I take a week or a month off (construction slows way down in the winter) she shames me for it or calls me a poor (actually).
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     rei (sun_eater@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:24 JST rei

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     @Tony @jae meh, that's very lame of her
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     rei (sun_eater@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:25 JST rei

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     @Tony @jae > boomer shamed
     
     Are going to a sex cult or smth dude?
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:26 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @sun_eater @jae yah, for sure. For like road trips and stuff I'd just take him with me. I could always bring them to one of those cat day cares or something but that breaks my heart. I suppose my parents would watch him, i watch their cat in the winters too. But then i'd have to tell my mom where i'm going and get boomer shamed lol
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:27 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @sun_eater @jae whats stopping me is that I like to travel once or twice a year, and idk who i'd have baby sit while i'm gone. Usually for 7-10 days.
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     rei (sun_eater@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:27 JST rei

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     @Tony @jae damn, yeah that's tough. Unless you give it a lot of freedom to go out and stuff, but usually they die or run away and disappear forever if u do give them much freedom
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     rei (sun_eater@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:28 JST rei

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     @Tony @jae get one, it's totally worth it
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:29 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @jae also, im really going back and forth about getting a cat...idk man
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     wuhan.bat™ (jae@darkdork.dev)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:49:30 JST wuhan.bat™

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     @Tony pop a gummy, and pick up a hammer. lfg!
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     ✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: (dcc@annihilation.social)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:57:09 JST ✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware:

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     @Tony @jae @sun_eater Really? lol you have non of the gen x quirks at all
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 22:59:14 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @dcc @jae @sun_eater I know! I think it's just zoomers that think I'm older. Anyone who's actually 40 can probably tell I'm younger.
     
     it's seriously because I was raised by boomers. I've seen most of leave it to beaver and that hasn't been on tv since like 1970 lol. So, i know about a lot of older person stuff because most of my family is like 70-80 right now.
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     rei (sun_eater@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 23:04:03 JST rei

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     @Tony @jae i though u were at least 35
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 23:04:03 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @sun_eater @jae WHY?
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 23:04:04 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @sun_eater @jae what? see! Everyone thinks im like 45
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 23:04:05 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @sun_eater @jae that's terrifying. I was born in 1993
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     rei (sun_eater@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Friday, 09-May-2025 23:04:05 JST rei

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     @Tony @jae lmao, you are 31 then? I am surprised, my gf is older than u
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     wuhan.bat™ (jae@darkdork.dev)'s status on Saturday, 10-May-2025 03:51:04 JST wuhan.bat™

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     @Tony @sun_eater please note, i'm not being rude about your mother. but this is a lot of thought for getting a cat. i rescue stray/feral cats and turn their life around as a hobby. i've got a goddamn army of kittehz!
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     wuhan.bat™ (jae@darkdork.dev)'s status on Saturday, 10-May-2025 03:51:05 JST wuhan.bat™

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     @Tony @sun_eater put your mother up for adoption, then adopt a cat.
     
     problems always have solutions
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Saturday, 10-May-2025 03:51:05 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @jae @sun_eater this ☝🏻
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     pwm (pwm@darkdork.dev)'s status on Saturday, 10-May-2025 03:51:18 JST pwm

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     @Tony @jae @sun_eater hemming*
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Saturday, 10-May-2025 03:51:19 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @jae @sun_eater that's awesome.
     
     I just take pet ownership seriously lol, i've been himming and hawing about it for over a year lol
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     wuhan.bat™ (jae@darkdork.dev)'s status on Saturday, 10-May-2025 04:04:10 JST wuhan.bat™

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     @Tony @pwm @sun_eater spelling and grammar starts in kindergarten m80 kek
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Saturday, 10-May-2025 04:04:11 JST Mr. Bacon

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     @pwm @jae @sun_eater k boomer
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     pwm (pwm@darkdork.dev)'s status on Saturday, 10-May-2025 04:04:27 JST pwm

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     @Tony @jae @sun_eater SORRY for CARING my GOSH
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     wuhan.bat™ (jae@darkdork.dev)'s status on Saturday, 10-May-2025 04:33:00 JST wuhan.bat™

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     @pwm @Tony @sun_eater it's a badge of honor on fedi if you can spell. wear the badge proudly spaceman, o7
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     wuhan.bat™ (jae@darkdork.dev)'s status on Saturday, 10-May-2025 04:33:13 JST wuhan.bat™

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     @pwm @Tony @sun_eater no good deed goes un-drawn-and-quartered
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