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   Chicken :cqlgusu: (lookitmychicken@blorbo.social)'s status on Sunday, 06-Apr-2025 12:46:10 JST Chicken :cqlgusu:

   I try to stay away from fandom discourse and slagging matches and bitching and moaning, and I will continue to try to do so.

   But yet again Bang Chan is posting distressed messages on bubble about what a terrible person he is and how it's all his fault that fans are bitching about something or other.

   Thing One: I want to slap that phone out of his hands and uninstall all his social media apps for a bit.

   Thing Two: I want to change the fannish entitlement and the fucked-up behaviours. But that will never happen because I can't make anyone fix their heart.

   Thing Three: I want to change the industry expectations that celebs (kpop idols or anyone) are required to engage directly with all fans, without any effective protection from the ones that are toxic and nasty.

   skz

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     Chicken :cqlgusu: (lookitmychicken@blorbo.social)'s status on Sunday, 06-Apr-2025 13:01:04 JST Chicken :cqlgusu:

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     • Pixelcats⁷

     @pixelcats I think surely someone who loves him must be doing that?? But I don't know if he's hearing them or believing them 😕

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     Pixelcats⁷ (pixelcats@apobangpo.space)'s status on Sunday, 06-Apr-2025 13:01:05 JST Pixelcats⁷

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     @lookitmychicken Ugh. it's all so exhausting. I hope he's ok and someone who loves him is gently reminding him that the worst amongst us are not his responsibility or deserving of his energy. 😔

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     Inoru (inoru_no_hoshi@blorbo.social)'s status on Sunday, 06-Apr-2025 16:16:07 JST Inoru

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     @lookitmychicken the urge to bitchslap fellow fans is rising. What are they even bitching over?? Bangchan bb you go get yourself a cuddlepuddle because you deserve it. Don't listen to asshole fans.