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   Ulysses Almeida Neto (ulyssesalmeida@bolha.us)'s status on Tuesday, 11-Feb-2025 19:16:50 JST Ulysses Almeida Neto

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   • Ginny McQueen :inhaler:

   @ginny it seems you're not asking for help but asking for a favor.

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     Ginny McQueen :inhaler: (ginny@social.ginny.today)'s status on Tuesday, 11-Feb-2025 19:16:53 JST Ginny McQueen :inhaler:

     I don't understand why when I ask for help with something, I am told how to do the thing.

     I am not asking for help because I don't know how the task works. I am asking for help because I need help. If I asked "how do I do this thing", then sure, tell me how to do the thing. But if I ask for assistance with the task, it means exactly that. I'm not stupid. I'm overwhelmed, sick, and cannot manage all of this alone.