I am Very Cranky about signing up for services/platforms to use online and then finding out shitbags are involved with it. (I haven’t cancelled proton or pixelfed yet, but now I don’t want to use them, but if I start deleting accounts, I might get into a “I don’t know who’s not a shitbag involved in anything I use” mood and delete everything.)
Which is to say, don’t directly recommend any alternatives unless you for definite sure know there’s no shitbaggery and you are also not a shitbag.