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   Fesshole 🧻 (fesshole@mastodon.social)'s status on Tuesday, 28-Jan-2025 08:37:28 JST Fesshole 🧻

   BF of 6 years asked me to wear a diaper for him as it was a kink of his. Absolutely disgusted beyond belief and I've just moved out of his flat and ghosted him while he's at work.

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     goatsarah (goatsarah@thegoatery.dyndns.org)'s status on Tuesday, 28-Jan-2025 08:37:27 JST goatsarah

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     @fesshole Kinkshaming is not nice. You could have just said no.
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     goatsarah (goatsarah@thegoatery.dyndns.org)'s status on Friday, 31-Jan-2025 00:05:03 JST goatsarah

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     @ephemeromorph @fesshole There’s “not liking it” and there’s “utterly fucking destroying the emotional health of someone who thought it was ok to be vulnerable around you”.

     “No. I’m not into that. Maybe we need to reevaluate things?” is the adult way of doing this.

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     Toilet full of bugs (ephemeromorph@topspicy.social)'s status on Friday, 31-Jan-2025 00:05:04 JST Toilet full of bugs

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     @fesshole I'm on fesser's side and am surprised by the replies saying that 'kink-shaming' is bad. You're allowed to have whatever kink, but I'm allowed to not like it. Why do I have to be okay with something just because it gives someone else a boner?
     'OP could have been nicer' - BF could have been nicer about springing such a big ask on someone before checking whether they were okay with that kink.