In times like these it's perfectly feminine to be extremely angry at the world.
Actually, it's perfectly feminine to be angry and to express that anger at any time.
It's feminine to say no.
It's feminine to be aggressive in saying no after the several times your polite no is ignored.
Don't let anyone tell you what behaviour is feminine and what isn't. You want to use the baseball bat, go for it.
Expressing your anger and not submitting is a revolutionary act.