@ajroach42 I understand how this feels. I got quietly written out of Thanksgiving a few years back. I wasn't even graced with a reason why.
And then there's the time my brother and his wife took my niece...the only "next generation" member of my entire family...up to Atlanta, never even told me, and then posted about it all over Facebook like I wouldn't find out.
It's hard being written off the page. But here we are. It's cold comfort, but you're welcome at my table, and I'm proud of you.