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   Sumana Harihareswara (brainwane@social.coop)'s status on Wednesday, 18-Dec-2024 00:09:28 JST Sumana Harihareswara

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   recently I have been reminded of how institutional systems will do this, deliberately https://social.coop/@brainwane/113617389825901634

   and I think of the constant work it takes to remember the conditions of my struggle (instead of just lamenting my poor capabilities)
   https://www.harihareswara.net/posts/2019/its-not-just-you/

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     Sumana Harihareswara (brainwane@social.coop)'s status on Wednesday, 18-Dec-2024 00:09:30 JST Sumana Harihareswara

     every once in a while I think about this Reddit post, where a woman discovers her boyfriend has been consistently lying to her to keep her feeling bad

     https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/gy79dx/boyfriend_wont_stop_telling_me_i_have_bo/

     and I wonder what other varieties of manipulative lies people deliberately tell, one-on-one (such as https://www.askamanager.org/2024/04/my-boss-says-my-work-is-bad-but-all-evidence-says-the-opposite.html ) and en masse

     and whether the victims ever find out, and what scars are left behind

     bhaugen repeated this.